In my last blog post, it was mentioned that I say, “I love you,” to my husband regularly at certain times, and that got me to thinking about habits. Then I found this photo and quote …
A habit is defined as “a routine of behavior that is repeated regularly and tends to occur subconsciously.” Habits can be good or bad, and it’s my opinion that getting into the habit of saying, “I love you,” is definitely a good one. It may be a reminder of how important a role someone plays in your life. Perhaps you say those three little words to express how happy being with that special person makes you. Maybe you want your sweetie to know how much you trust and rely on them … how much you appreciate every moment spent with him or her.
Maybe saying, “I love you” at certain times isn’t simply a habit, but is truly a reminder that you’re with the one individual who has made your life so much better, and you really do see them as the best thing that ever happened to you.
Whenever you say those three precious words, allow yourself to remember their importance. When you say, “I love you,” say it with feeling. Let all the emotions you have for your loved one shine through that simple phrase.
“I’m happiest when I’m with you.”
“I trust you with my heart.”
“I accept you … all of you. I’ll support you in your choices.”
“I see us together, and I want a future that includes growing old with you.”
Regardless if it’s a habit or not, let those who share your life know in word and deed how important they are to you. My advice would be to say, “I love you,” as often and in as many ways as you can. Expressing love is something we can never get too much of.
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